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I guess I will not make an attempt at the record for "Staying together for the kids". We are at about a year now and I think spouse is ready to bolt. She has let me know that she would be gone in a heart beat if she thought she could do it (kid raising) alone. Maybe she figures its time to try.
She has not vocalized this to me. We hardly vocalize at all. She blames me for not communicating or telling her what I am thinking or feeling. I tried to tell her how much I loved her and how much I needed her, but when you get pummelled with your needs like getting slapped in the face with a wet carp, you get the picture.
Here is my position for the record.
My wife chats with an "old friend" (male) on a regular basis and refused to stop talking to him when she found out how much it upset me. Since that time she has not only continued to talk to him but has also started chatting with another "old friend" (male) from high school. Get this, she tells me the second old friend is pissed at his girlfriend because she talks with a guy she used to date, even moved out (temporarily) over it. Was she telling me to go, I don't know.
There is also the Jekyll and Hyde thing. My wife suffers from severe pms. For one week of the month my mantra is "she will be normal again in a week". This time during the month was not as bad when she was on her meds, so I figure she has stopped taking her anti-depressant medication. Maybe that is why she is ready to run.
My wife gets everything she wants, with the exception of two things. One, I will not quit my job of 23 years and move. Did I mention that we live in her late grandparents home (renovated) next door to her family home in which her sister now lives. And yes her sister lived there first, so we made the decision to live next to family. Two, I will not build a six foot privacy fence around our back yard. We are building a six foot shadow box fence around the back yard. Other than these two things, she wants it she gets it.
Damn I am tired of her bitching about how rough her life is.
Take care, more later maybe.
She has not vocalized this to me. We hardly vocalize at all. She blames me for not communicating or telling her what I am thinking or feeling. I tried to tell her how much I loved her and how much I needed her, but when you get pummelled with your needs like getting slapped in the face with a wet carp, you get the picture.
Here is my position for the record.
My wife chats with an "old friend" (male) on a regular basis and refused to stop talking to him when she found out how much it upset me. Since that time she has not only continued to talk to him but has also started chatting with another "old friend" (male) from high school. Get this, she tells me the second old friend is pissed at his girlfriend because she talks with a guy she used to date, even moved out (temporarily) over it. Was she telling me to go, I don't know.
There is also the Jekyll and Hyde thing. My wife suffers from severe pms. For one week of the month my mantra is "she will be normal again in a week". This time during the month was not as bad when she was on her meds, so I figure she has stopped taking her anti-depressant medication. Maybe that is why she is ready to run.
My wife gets everything she wants, with the exception of two things. One, I will not quit my job of 23 years and move. Did I mention that we live in her late grandparents home (renovated) next door to her family home in which her sister now lives. And yes her sister lived there first, so we made the decision to live next to family. Two, I will not build a six foot privacy fence around our back yard. We are building a six foot shadow box fence around the back yard. Other than these two things, she wants it she gets it.
Damn I am tired of her bitching about how rough her life is.
Take care, more later maybe.
posted by Ken | 1:24 PM
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